The how to have Anal Sex and anal intercourse. Rimming and the art of arse licking.
This guide will give you an insight to the world of anal sex and the art of rimming and arse licking - arse fucking!
Can you resist it? anal sex? anal licking?
I didn't think so.
If you don't enjoy or aren't even curious about rimming
- licking someone's ass - then this page is not for you.
It's common sense to make sure that your partner is clean "down there" before you dig in :-)
Position is the key to doing an effective job here. Just as the 69 position is popular with a lot of people for blowjobs - the 69 position is the best for rimming.
It can be very erotic to have a partner straddle your face with their ass with their body facing your legs. This allows you the most access to their ass. When in this position some people are tempted to lean forward and try to rim you at the same time. When your partner does this to you their ass rotates up and you have to strain your neck and tongue trying to reach it. To avoid this, tell them to sit up, but also they should support their weight, otherwise you might have too much of a good thing in your face and you may find it difficult to breathe!
A good position for rimming your partner is for them to be on all fours, or even better, flat on their stomach with their legs spread widely apart. Then you can really go to town on them :-)
When it comes to rimming it helps to have a lot of dexterity with your tongue. The deeper your push your tongue the better it feels. The slicker you make your partner's ass the easier it is for you. Use your hands to spread their 'cheeks' apart. An interesting experience for your partner may be to get "hummed". "Humming" is pushing your face into their ass with your tongue probing their hole and then moaning/humming out loud.
A lot of people probably haven't experienced this kind of "vibration". Try it sometime. When rimming, playfully lick and gently bite their ass cheeks. Squeeze them with your hands, feel their texture. Don't overlook the "miracle inch". This is the area between the asshole and vagina. For many this is a super hypersensitive area. Try giving it a good tongue bath. Fingers can be a mixed proposition.
If you are going to finger your partner's ass while rimming, make sure that both - your finger and his asshole - are slick with saliva, otherwise they may resist. The skin on your fingers is usually a lot rougher than you think. So having a finger up there might not always feel good.
If you're rimming someone who is a complete 'top' - it may be a big turn off for them to have a finger, or anything, up their ass. Though if your partner is versatile or a 'bottom', they may enjoy a finger or two, or five *grin*. You'll have to ask them to find out.
Also fingernails may cause "snags" so be careful. Rimming is one of those acts, that's become a main stream fetish. If your partner has never been rimmed before - encourage them to give it a go and see how they feel. Chances are they'll love it.
Don't necessarily expect them to return the favour. There is still a very large number of prissy people out there that are squeamish about licking another person's ass. Considering that a good shower is still the most effective precaution against anything unsavoury, I have to say that they are the ones with a problem and are missing out - not you!