Anal Sex and Anal Intercourse
Your guide to having Fantastic Anal Sex
To start off with you need to decide if it's a good day/night/time to have anal sex.
I hate messes, because they can be unpleasant and embarrassing.
If you know that there's a possibility that you're going to be having anal intercourse or anal sex that evening, it's a good idea to use the appropriate facilities and 'purge' your rectum and anus before starting that evening's adventures.
I'm talking about taking a good long hard crap, and then showering and making sure you are thoroughly clean "down there". You can also use a hand-held showerhead to "flush-out" your lower colon. Unscrew the hose from the showerhead and turn on the water (not full power) and run the water until it is lukewarm or comfortable to the skin. Place the hose near your asshole and press it forward until you feel the stream of water penetrate you and enter your rectum through our anus into your anal canal. Let it fill you up for 2 to 3 seconds. Step out from the shower so you can sit on the toilet and release. Repeat this a couple of times if necessary, until your anal cavity is clean and fresh for being fucked.
Another piece of prep work you can do is to properly moisturise down there using a water based hand/ body lotion. I want to make one thing clear - size does make a difference, and especially thickness - though often length makes up for girth.
If you find yourself fortunate enough to be with a "date" that's rather sizably endowed, look at it as a challenge. I recommend starting with a position where he is on his back and you sit down on top of his cock. This is usually the easiest way for you to get used to a cock inside of you, and especially one that is larger than what you're normally used to. It also allows you to have complete control over how much goes inside you.
Once you're used to him, you can try all the different positions under the sun. This position also works for those who are inexperienced, and have never had anal sex / anal intercourse, or haven't been ass fucked too often. If it truly is your first time "getting it" then I have a tip to offer you - as his cock is working its way inside of you, push against it with your ass like your taking a dump. Fight the urge to clamp your ass shut, because then it will start to hurt.
On the subject of keeping your ass tight. If you've been ass fucked before you're familiar with that 'loose' feeling you get afterwards. A helpful tip is to 'exercise' your ass - squeeze the cheeks of your ass together a couple of times when you're sitting down, or standing. Also try to learn how to get more control over the muscles in your ass, so that you can relax your hole when you need to, and tighten it up when you want to.
Use your imagination, and have him fuck you the way you want to be fucked!